8 Words To be Enterprising, not Indecisive

I like these 8 words, sometimes I am troubled by indecisive emotion. However, I want to be an enterprising man then I remember these. Today I share them.


1. Do not make any decision when you are in tears and speak as little as possible while falling in negative emotions.

2. Do not think the same question repeatedly and do not put all the feelings in one person. You have parents, and other friends.

3. Do not be afraid to do anything wrong. Even if it was wrong, do not be upset because the life is full of right and wrong. A long time later, it means nothing.

4. It is normal for everyone to feel negative but he must understand that this is only a small part of life. In the rest of the time, try to make yourself inner peace.

5. When you do not know what should be said with him, keep yourself silent. Silence means everything.

6. Do not to be afraid to do one thing, to say something wrong, to think of the past, to face the future.

7. No Regret. No matter where and when you should not regret it. The regret emotion is even more terrible than the thing you did wrong, because it will destroy your self-confidence, self-esteem and lead you to do thing wrong again.

8. Promise must be done, even it is stupid because nothing is worse than breaking your faith.

Decision and Self-Reflection

I had thought about the PHD problem and asked several friends for suggestions, and at last I make a decision that I won't to accept it.

Professor Zhou known that I was preparing on TOEFL and this is one reason, I believe, which he asked me to a phd program. However, the reason that I want to apply to foreign university is I wanna some resources and experience the life abroad. But actually, I am not suitable to deep research，and the input-output ratio is hot high. I won't spend 5 years in laboratory and my friends suggest me to consider my interesting thing, focus it and do it.

What is my interesting? The best suitable words to describe myself maybe, "I have no ideas". I had thought little to myself before. I heard that sophomore students in U.S university should consider their future career. Besides, there will be some advisers to help them choose a way matched them. In my that time, I had been preparing exams! No one told me that then I ignored it. Ridiculous.

I have 306 days before, the winter solstice this year. It's enough for me to think about the "idea" about myself. Every morning I will make a mission list and at night I'll check them. Get the ideas!